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    2013-08-17 07:46:46 作者:若愚 】 瀏覽:13054次 評論:3
    編者按:看到標題,我想到荀子說的:“有自知之明的人不抱怨別人,懂得命運的人不埋怨天。”是的,世上萬物,都有自己的長處和短處,能知道自己的長處和短處的人,卻不容易。只有自知之明才能不斷修正自己,才能把握好自己的人生。
           有這樣一個十分有趣的現象:在生活和社會活動中,我們自己在經歷過程中所交往交際無數的人,張三,李四,趙五,王六,馬七,侯八......一旦提起他們中的任何一個人,或者回憶起與他們有關的故事情節,腦海里便會即刻浮現出他們的模樣相貌、性格特征、走路姿勢、技藝愛好......盡管有的人只是一面之交。但是,要是自己想象自己的模樣相貌,卻是模模糊糊,很難馬上準確無誤地呈現腦際,只能有個大概輪廓的印象,除非拿面鏡子,對著鏡子說:“啊,原來自己這個馬大哈竟然是這般光景!”甚至就是自己的講話聲音、習慣動作也并非十分清楚。
      這種耐人尋味的、又十分好笑的現象,是否說明了這樣一個道理:認識了解別人比較容易,真正認識了解自己卻比較困難。或許正因為如此,茫茫人海,能夠認識了解別人的人固然有很多很多,而不能夠認識了解自己的人依然有很多很多。
      人貴有自知之明,人應該有自知之明。“自知”是做人的基本底線,有了“自知”,方能“自明”,才可能知道自己該為不該為,才能興利除弊,才能揚長避短,才能修身養性,才能不斷修正錯誤,才能把握好自己的人生方向。
      固然,人生在世,要做的事情很多很多,千頭萬緒,錯綜復雜。但是,無論干什么事情,都有其必然的內在規律和要求,知其能為而為之是自知,知其不能為而避之為自明。知其不能為而勉強為之,就難免有所失敗。行事之初,三思而后行。如果自己不是那塊料,就不要濫竽充數,打腫臉充胖子,裝腔作勢,鴨子去上雞架,免為其難;如果自己是那樣的料,有做這方面事情的能力,也不必躲躲閃閃失去自信,讓機遇流失,讓展示自己才華的機會擦肩而過而抱憾終身。
      人生在世,踏踏實實地做人做事非常重要。做人既不應好高騖遠,妄自尊大,也不應自卑自餒,喪失自我。所謂把握自己,把握人生,其實關鍵就在于要對自己有一個客觀的認識——自知者明。做人做事,重要的是要知道自己的實際,喜歡吃什么飯,有多大的肚量,能吃幾個饃,看菜吃飯,量體裁衣。清楚自己的優點與缺點,明白自己能與不能。尚若做到了立于自知,明于自我,行于自能,成于自信,也就真正悟出了做人的真諦和道理,便就自然進入了人生可貴的境界。
      眼鏡先生:2013.08.08于金穗樓
     
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